Bigger Resilience · Principle 17 of 21

Strengthen with Safety

People can't own their mistakes until it's safe to.

8 minute readSafer team experimentsTeam version included
Leaders in conversation at a Big Bold Goals workshop
From the bookWe are not thinking creatures who feel, we are feeling creatures who think.Chapter 17, The Big Bold Mindset
The story

High performance. Great results. A toxic culture.

The CEO of a 10,000-person company told me: "We have a high-performance culture. Our team are driven go-getters. We get great results. But we have a culture that is toxic."

Nobody wanted to be the person who failed. People hid problems. Issues that should have been raised never were. My brief was to speak to their top 120 performers and start the shift from purely numbers-driven to reflective, accountable and adaptive.

Every behaviour is a form of communication. That culture was saying one thing: it isn't safe to own a mistake here.

Where are you?

How safe is it to be honest in your team?

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How comfortable are you raising a concern or admitting a mistake at work? Score it from 1 to 100.

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Is your score different at home or with friends? What makes the difference?

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When someone on your team makes a mistake, what happens next?

The science of safety

Safe to speak up. Safe to get it wrong.

Amy Edmondson of Harvard Business School coined "psychological safety": a shared belief that it's safe to take interpersonal risks, like speaking up, sharing ideas and asking questions.

Agile firms: revenue growth
+37%
Agile firms: profits
+30%
How much faster agile firms grow revenue, and how much higher their profits, than non-agile firms (MIT research cited in the book)

What low safety looks like, and what changes when it's high

Fear of speaking up

People hold back ideas and concerns, so leaders never hear the truth.

Blame culture

Mistakes are met with finger-pointing instead of learning, so people stop taking risks.

Resistance to change

The status quo wins. Teams with high safety are the ones that embrace new ideas and adapt.

Big Bold Leaders

Satya Nadella: from cutthroat to curious

2014When he became CEO of a Microsoft known for internal competition and fear of failure
7x+Growth in Microsoft's market value by June 2023, from $315bn to $2,485bn

Nadella led with empathy and vulnerability. He shared stories of his own failures and what he learnt, and encouraged everyone to do the same.

Mistakes became chances to grow, not reasons for punishment. The culture shift helped Microsoft innovate, adapt and attract top talent.

If you plant seeds today and expect an oak tree tomorrow, the only person being deluded is you.Think like a farmer
The tool

The journey to safer

Safety starts with leaders going first, consistently, over time. These are experiments to run in your own team.

Go first

Lead from the front

Share a time you were challenged and how you found a way through.

Show it

Model what you want

Model the behaviours you want, and praise them when you see them in others.

Listen

Encourage open conversations

Ask for feedback, listen properly, and build trust by acting on what you hear.

Be patient

Think like a farmer

Plant the seeds, add sunshine and water, and don't expect change overnight.

Try this week

Share one mistake

In your next team meeting, share a mistake you made recently and what you learnt from it. Then notice who speaks up afterwards, and thank them.

Take it to your team

Run a team safety check

Make the invisible visible. You can't improve what nobody is willing to say out loud.

Everyone privately scores 1 to 100: how comfortable am I raising a concern here?
Reveal the spread. What makes it easier or harder to speak up?
Agree one behaviour the team will practise for the next month.